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Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Attributes of holiness – unselfishness

Matthew 22:35 -- 36

Attributes of holiness – unselfishness

[B.T. Roberts reexamined]

“And one of them, a lawyer, asked him a question to test him. [36] “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?" [37] And he said to him, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. [38] This is the great and first commandment. [39] And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” [Matthew 22:35 – 36]

Introduction: Christians are no better than others, grace makes them different.

“The grand distinction is found in what they are saved from.”

“Dispositions and appetites”

They serve “no good purpose.”

They are a result of the Fall.

I. “Holiness implies deliverance from selfishness.” [B. T. Roberts]

A. “A selfish person cannot be… a holy person.”

1. Selfishness – “is that disposition which prompts us to seek our own interests or our own gratification without due regard to the rights or happiness of others.”

(Bishop Krober once explained that “selfishness” was the core/root idea of sin.)

“There is scarcely a crime which a man commits, or a sin of which he is guilt, which does not originate in selfishness.” [B. T. Roberts]

2. This follows the principle of two contradictory things cannot occupy the same space.

B. Question: “What is the greatest commandment?”

1. Notice it was asked by a lawyer!

a. The Talmud recognized 613 commandments. 248 were positive (do) and 365 were negative (do not).

b. The idea was to figure out which ones were “important” so they did not have to track (and keep) every law.

c. They were divided into “heavy” and “light.” Circumcision and sacrifice were considered to be “heavy.”

2. Jesus plays along: the PRINCIPLE is to love God AND love others.

a. Love is the opposite of selfishness.

b. Notice: this does not mean we are NOT to ignore ourselves.

c. It means we are NOT to be self-centered.

II. Selfishness.

A. “Selfishness looks at present interest, and present gratification.” [B.T. Roberts]

1. Philosophical argument that every human action is essentially selfish or self-serving.

2. Difficult to answer…

B. “Selfishness inclines us to seek our own gratification without regard to the duties which we owe, either to God or to our neighbor.” [B. T. Roberts]

1. Duty requires the “sacrifice of immediate self-interest.” [Wikipedia]

2. Cicero thought that duty came from a person’s own moral expectations. (E.g. The follow up question, “Who is my neighbor?)

C. Selfishness vs “self-love”

1. Roberts contrasts “selfishness” with what he calls “self-love.”

2. Today we would call this “self-love” a healthy “self-esteem” or being mentally healthy.

III. The trouble with selfishness

A. It is corrupt and corrupts everything.

1. Motives are no longer pure.

2. Trust becomes a serious question.

3. Ultimately the fruit is poison.

Test: “Are they poison or not?”

1. Lima beans? (Yes, they contain limarin. If eaten raw they can make a person violently sick.)

2. Cassava (Third most consumed starch in the world. It contains cyanide.)

3. Nutmeg (This is a new drug used by teens to get high because it has a chemical, myristicine, that causes hallucinations, and vomiting, dizziness, headaches, etc…)

4. Kidney beans (Contains the toxin phytohaemagglutinin… a few raw kidney beans will put you in a hospital. They have been known to kill people.)

5. Chocolate (Actually this is poisonous to dogs and cats… not humans.

6. Tomato (Leaves and vines contain a toxin. Green tomatoes have been known to kill humans.)

7. Cherries, apricots, peaches and plums (The pits contain a chemical that creates cyanide.)

8. Rhubarb (Contains oxalic acid salts which cause kidney problems, convulsions, and coma. Five pounds is a lethal dose for humans.)

9. Potatoes (If they turn green or sprout contain solanine when exposed to sun. They cause digestive problems.)

10. Apple (The seeds contain the same chemical found in fruit with pits. They are fatal if enough are consumed.)

[Source: www.environmentalgraffiti.com]

B. It is never satisfied.

1. “It grows by what it feeds upon.” [B. T. Roberts]

2. The more it is gratified, the more it wants.

C. “It never dies a natural death.” [B. T. Roberts]

1. It wears people out, grinds us down.

2. It camouflages itself everywhere.

D. Churches sanction and foster it.

1. Selling seats.

2. Fundraisers. (Fairs, Festivals, etc…)

Thursday, January 31, 2008

What is humility?

2 Chronicles 7:14

What is Humility?

 

“If my people who are called by My name, will humble themselves…”

 

What does it mean to be humble?

 

Des the spirit with which one approaches God actually affect our prayers?

 

How do we humble ourselves in prayer?

 

MISCONCEPTIONS:

1.                  Humble means to debase ourselves, “I am a worm.”

2.                  Humble means to think lowly of yourself, “I can’t do this.” (When you know you can.)

3.                  Humble is connected to “self-esteem.”

 

·        Humility is how we view others, how we view God, and our heart attitude in response to God.

 

I.                   Humility is about how we view others.

 

A.     Moses in Number 12.

 

1.                  “Now Moses was a very humble man, more humble than anyone else on the face of the earth”  [Numbers 12:3]

2.                  Problem: “Miriam and Aaron began to talk against Moses…” [Numbers 12:1a]

 

a.                         Miriam and Aaron were his sister and brother.

b.                        They were his supporting cast, necessary people.  Aaron was the “High Priest” leading the people in the ritual ceremony and Miriam was a “prophetess” leading the people emotionally.

c.                         Moses did not defend himself, God did..

 

“The anger of the LORD burned against them, and he left them.  When the cloud lifted from above the Tent, there stood Miriam—leprous, like snow.” [Numbers 12:9 – 10a]

B.     New Testament mandate.

 

1.                  “For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.” [Romans 12:3]

 

a.                         The idea of “do not think of yourself more highly than you ought” does not mean to run yourself down or play “poor-boy.”

b.                        “Sober judgment” means temperate and restrained.

c.                         The more “faith God has given you” the less you will want to seek honor and importance for yourself.  These things are not necessary.

 

2.                  “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves.” [Philippians 2:3]

 

a.                         “Selfish ambition or vain conceit” are excluded

b.                        The alternative is “humility” that would “consider others better than yourselves.”

 

·     A humble person is not one who feels shame for who they are… a humble person                        will not possess self-honor or self-adornment.

 

II.                Humility is about how we view God.

 

A.     We need an appropriate view of God.

 

1.                  “LORD, I have heard of your fame; I stand in awe of your deeds, O LORD.” [Habakkuk 3:2a]

 

a.                         “Awe” means “an overwhelming feeling of reverence, admiration…” [www.dictionary.com]

b.                        God is the only one who is “awesome.”

 

 

2.                  “And sang the song of Moses the servant of God and the song of the Lamb:  "Great and marvelous are your deeds, Lord God Almighty. Just and true are your ways, King of the ages. Who will not fear you, O Lord, and bring glory to your name? For you alone are holy. All nations will come and worship before you, for your righteous acts have been revealed." [Revelation 15:3 – 4]

 

B.     Humility is NOT putting ourselves down, it is raising Christ up!

 

1.                  God is exalted.

2.                  God is given proper place.

3.                  God is trusted.

4.                  God is reverenced.

 

“This is the one I esteem: he who is humble and contrite in spirit, and trembles at my word.” [Isaiah 66:2]

 

 

III.             Humility is about our heart attitude in response to God.

 

A.     We must be sensitive to God.

 

1.                  That means we deal with sin and barriers immediately and take action.

2.                  Case study: King Saul and King David.

 

a.                         Saul: 1 Samuel 13:11 – 14.

b.                        David: 2 Samuel 12:13 and Psalm 51

 

3.                  New testament understanding

 

a.     “But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble." James 4:6]

 

i.          “Oppose” is a military term, “to stand against in battle.”

ii.          We tend to blame others or demonic activity for opposition BUT maybe it is really God who is opposing us because of our pride.

 

b.     “Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.”  [Matthew 18:4]

 

B.  Humility begins with yourself.  Try “eating crow” [C is for conviction, R is for repentance, O is for obedience, W is for work]     

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